At Toi & Moi, we understand that dating isn’t just about swiping on an app—it’s about authentic and organic connections. That’s why we offer NYC Infield Dating Coaching: a unique, hands-on approach designed to help you succeed in the real world of dating. Think of us as your professional wingman or wingwoman!

Dating isn’t just about good looks, chemistry, or picking the right restaurant. It’s about confidence, connection, and authenticity — things that are hard to develop when you’re stuck in your head. If :

• You freeze up when you see someone attractive or don’t know what to say.

• You get nervous about sounding awkward or coming off too strong.

• The pressure of making a great first impression feels like too much.

• You’ve tried other solutions, but they haven’t worked in real life.

It’s not your fault — dating is a skill, just like any other. It takes practice, feedback, and real-life experience to become comfortable and confident.

Infield dating coaching is a hands-on, real-world approach to dating where a coach works directly with you in social settings — such as bars, cafes, or events — to provide live, personalized guidance. During these sessions, the coach observes your interactions, gives immediate feedback, and offers real-time strategies to improve your approach, conversation skills, and confidence. This method helps clients navigate the complexities of in-person dating, including body language, communication, and making meaningful connections, all while receiving tailored advice to improve their success in the moment.

What to Expect:

• 1-Hour Strategy Session: No more second-guessing your approach. We’ll craft a personalized strategy together, focusing on your goals, strengths, and areas of improvement.

• 4-Hour Live Coaching: We’ll be there to guide you through the nuances of real-time conversation and connection.

• 1-Hour Debrief: After your outing, we’ll analyze what went well, what could be improved, and how to continue progressing in your dating journey.

What You’ll Gain After Just One Session

• Confidence: The ability to approach and interact with people in a relaxed, natural way.

• Authenticity: Master the art of being yourself, even in new and potentially intimidating situations.

• Connection: Learn how to build real chemistry with someone — beyond small talk and surface-level interactions.

• Clarity: Understanding of how to read social cues and adapt to different personalities in a way that feels comfortable and engaging.

Ready to step up your dating game? Let Toi & Moi help you make meaningful connections and find the lasting love you deserve.