I live outside of the New York area. What services are available to me?

Toi & Moi’s matchmaking services are only available to New York area residents who can commute to Manhattan for appointments and who date or are looking to date in the surrounding area. Dating coaching, including the Dating Strategy Intensive, is available to clients nationwide. If located in the New York area, clients will be asked to attend sessions in person. Otherwise, all dating coaching sessions are virtual. Infield dating coaching services are all in-person. A la carte services are available virtually.

What is infield dating coaching?

Infield dating coaching is a hands-on, real-world approach to dating where a coach works directly with you in social settings — such as bars, cafes, or events — to provide live, personalized guidance. During these sessions, the coach observes your interactions, gives immediate feedback, and offers real-time strategies to improve your approach, conversation skills, and confidence. This method helps clients navigate the complexities of in-person dating, including body language, communication, and making meaningful connections, all while receiving tailored advice to improve their success in the moment. It's especially useful for those who want to refine their skills in actual dating environments rather than just theory or online interactions.

What is the difference between the Intake Call and the Discovery Call?

The Discovery Call is intended for us to get clarity on a client’s needs and goals before making service recommendations. The Intake Call is a short conversation primarily geared towards understanding the client’s past experiences. The Intake Call assumes that the client has already chosen and partially paid for their package.

What is the difference between your Dating Strategy Intensive and the Dating Coaching packages?

The Dating Strategy Intensive is a short-term dating coaching experience intended to assist clients with one goal. The Intensive can include up to three follow-up sessions, which provide additional support in implementing or refining the actionable advice our dating coach provides. The Dating Coaching packages are designed to be fully customizable and provide ongoing support. The client can have multiple goals that our dating coach will assist with. The Dating Coaching packages are also typically better suited for individuals who are actively dating (~one date per week on average).