Toi & Moi is a boutique matchmaking and dating coaching service for modern romantics who want meaningful connection and genuine compatibility without the noise. Based in New York City, our intimate, bespoke matchmaking services are designed for discerning individuals who are successful in life—but still seeking a deep, compatible partnership and lasting connection.

We’re not an app. We’re not a factory-style agency. We’re a curated experience for people who are done wasting time and ready for the real thing. Whether you’re a high-achieving woman in your 30s or 40s navigating dating fatigue, a globally-minded expat adjusting to New York’s fast-paced culture, or someone craving deeper insight into your own patterns, we’re here for you.

At Toi & Moi, we blend intuitive matchmaking with thoughtful coaching and modern tools. We use insights from psychology, attachment theory, and communication science—not gimmicks—to help you break old cycles and open to new, aligned possibilities. We also offer group coaching and community events for those who want to grow alongside others on a similar journey.

Inspired by the timeless dance between you and me, our process is deeply personal. We offer a thoughtful, hands-on approach. We take the time to get to know you—your values, your vision, your lifestyle—and introduce you to high-quality matches aligned with your goals. Our curated introductions are rooted in authenticity, chemistry, and long-term compatibility.

What You Can Expect:

• Personalized, one-on-one matchmaking

• Carefully vetted, relationship-minded matches

• Ongoing support and date feedback

• Complete confidentiality and discretion

• A high-touch experience focused on long-term compatibility

• Expert coaching, guidance, and honest feedback

• A refined, human approach to modern love

We’re here to guide you toward the relationship and love you deserve. Toi & Moi is more than a matchmaking service—it’s a sanctuary for modern romance and connections that are curated, intentional, and designed with you in mind.

Great love is created with care, strategy, and a little bit of magic.

Let’s start your journey to love.