At Toi & Moi, we’re about creating the foundation for lasting, meaningful relationships. Based in New York City, we’re a boutique service that blends personalized matchmaking, dating coaching, and relationship support to help you find not just any partner, but the right partner. We work with modern romantics who want compatibility, connection, and authenticity, without the noise of the typical dating scene.

We understand that dating today can feel overwhelming—full of distractions and disconnected experiences. That’s why we offer a curated, high-touch service that’s as thoughtful and discerning as you are. Whether you're a high-achieving professional in your 30s or 40s seeking a deeper connection, an expat adjusting to New York’s fast-paced dating culture, or someone ready to break old patterns and grow into a healthier relationship dynamic, Toi & Moi is here to guide you.

Our approach is a harmonious blend of intuitive matchmaking and transformational coaching, rooted in proven methods like psychology, attachment theory, and communication science. We take the time to understand your unique relationship goals, values, and lifestyle—ensuring that every match we introduce is aligned with your vision for the future.

In addition to matchmaking, we offer one-on-one dating coaching, infield services, and relationship support for those who want to enhance their dating skills, refine their approach, and find success on their terms. From pre-date strategy to ongoing feedback and relationship guidance, we’re here for you every step of the way.

What You Can Expect:

• Personalized matchmaking with high-quality, relationship-minded matches

• Infield coaching to enhance your dating experience and build confidence

• Expert guidance on communication, emotional connection, and compatibility

• Ongoing support with detailed feedback and strategy for success

• Tailored relationship coaching for deeper connections and growth

• Confidentiality, discretion, and a hands-on approach to your journey

• Community events and group coaching for those seeking to grow alongside others

Toi & Moi is more than just a matchmaking service—it’s a sanctuary for modern love, where every interaction is intentional, every connection meaningful, and every relationship cultivated with care. Our goal is to help you find love that’s aligned with your heart’s desires and your long-term vision.

Great love is made with care, strategy, and a little bit of magic. Let’s start your journey to love today.