Matchmaking
Toi & Moi is a boutique matchmaking service for modern romantics who want meaningful connection and genuine compatibility without the noise. Based in New York City, our intimate, bespoke matchmaking services are designed for discerning individuals who are successful in life—but still seeking a deep, compatible partnership and lasting connection.
At Toi & Moi, we blend intuitive matchmaking with thoughtful coaching and modern tools. We use insights from psychology, attachment theory, and communication science to help you break old cycles and open to new, aligned possibilities.
Inspired by the timeless dance between you and me, our process is deeply personal. We offer a thoughtful, hands-on approach. We take the time to get to know you—your values, your vision, your lifestyle—and introduce you to high-quality matches aligned with your goals. Our curated introductions are rooted in authenticity, chemistry, and long-term compatibility.
What You Can Expect:
Personalized, one-on-one matchmaking
Carefully vetted, relationship-minded matches
Ongoing support and date feedback
Complete confidentiality and discretion
A high-touch experience focused on long-term compatibility
Expert coaching, guidance, and honest feedback
A refined, human approach to modern love
We’re here to guide you toward the relationship and love you deserve. Toi & Moi is more than a matchmaking service—it’s a sanctuary for modern romance and connections that are curated, intentional, and designed with you in mind.
Great love is created with care, strategy, and a little bit of magic.
Let’s start your journey to love.