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We're building an exclusive community for NYC singles. VIP Membership is by invitation only. Join the waitlist to get early access.

Under-40 Membership - $99 / Month

Community, shared experiences, and a fresh approach to dating for young professionals in NYC. No apps, no left-on-read, no ghosting, no BS. Just a curated group of like-minded people, ready to date intentionally.

  • Free, exclusive under-40 singles events

  • Early access and discounts to Toi & Moi Matchmaking singles events and workshops

  • Bring a single friend for free

  • Monthly dating tips and advice

Premium Membership - $249 / Month

High-quality, relationship-ready singles looking to make genuine connections. You are not just joining a dating service; you are applying to be part of a carefully selected community of your peers.

  • Free singles events

  • Early access and discounts to Toi & Moi Matchmaking singles events and workshops

  • 12+ members-only curated events and group activities per year

  • Complimentary matchmaking consultation upon request

  • Discounted dating app profile refresh upon request

  • A private community of like-minded singles

  • Monthly dating tips and advice

VIP Membership - $399 / Month

An exclusive community. Bespoke matching, white-glove service, and access to the most discerning and successful individuals.

  • By application and invitation only

  • 24+ members-only events per year, including a smaller invitation-only series

  • Complimentary matchmaking consultation upon request

  • Complimentary dating app profile refresh upon request

  • Discounted styling/image consulting upon request

  • One complimentary dating coaching session per year upon request

  • 1-month complimentary trial matchmaking upon request

  • Matchmaker presence at all events

  • A private community of like-minded singles

  • Monthly dating tips and advice

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  • The membership is about building real connections and getting personalized coaching. You'll meet high-quality people and learn dating skills that will help you for life.