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The Progressive Matchmaker For Successful Singles

Thoughtfully curated matches, a high-touch, personalized experience, coaching rooted in science, sociology, and psychology, and a matchmaker who aligns with your values and understands that you’re not just looking for a partner—you’re searching for someone who genuinely cares about making the world a better place for all.

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How We Can Help You

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Matchmaking Services

A high-touch, personalized matchmaking service designed for busy New York professionals seeking meaningful, lasting relationships. We take the time to get to know you—your values, lifestyle, and relationship goals—then hand-select introductions from a carefully vetted pool of serious, relationship-ready singles. Each match is curated with intention, supported by expert guidance, date feedback, and full discretion.

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6-Week Dating Reset Workshop

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We’ll help you navigate modern dating with clarity, confidence, and purpose. Through personalized sessions, we uncover patterns, build communication skills, and refine your approach to attract the kind of partner you truly want. We’ll offer practical strategies and mindset shifts that turn dating into a more empowered, fulfilling experience.

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What Our Clients Have to Say

  • "Sophie is a keen listener, highly observant, and incredibly empathetic. She takes the time to intentionally guide you through your core dating philosophies, and has helped me uncover things I had no idea existed in my own perspective. She has helped me embrace my identity and my agency in new and exciting ways, and I couldn’t recommend her services enough."

    —Tom F.

  • "“Sophie offers a truly unique and refreshing approach to dating strategy. Instead of focusing on helping you find a partner who simply fits your preferences, she guides you inward--with questions that prompt deep self-reflection. Through our session, I came to understand not only what my core values truly are, but also gained clarity on my personal strengths and vulnerabilities. Sophie's philosophy is powerful: it's not just about what you're seeking in a partner--it's about who you are as a partner. The qualities you embody, the values you live by, and the energy you project are what ultimately shape the connections you attract. She has a clear vision of what a healthy, fulfilling relationship looks like--one where two people are committed to growing together. And every piece of advice she offers is grounded in that principle. Her message is clear and inspiring: if you're genuinely ready for a meaningful relationship, begin by becoming the best version of yourself. From there, the right connection will follow--naturally and authentically.”

    —Peter G.

  • "Sophie is an exceptional NYC matchmaking coach! Through her professionalism, attentive listening, and wise advice, I moved forward confidently in a relationship, overcoming doubts and laying a solid foundation. Her approach is both human and effective, blending empathy with practical tools. Highly recommend for tailored advice and support. Un grand merci Sophie :)"

    - Z. T.

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Join the Toi & Moi private matchmaking database to be considered for introductions with our high-caliber, relationship-ready clients. It’s completely free to be included. Apply now to be considered—we’re always searching for remarkable individuals to introduce to our clients.

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Let Us Get to Know You

Not sure which service is right for you? Book a 20-minute Discovery Call to see how Toi & Moi’s personalized matchmaking or coaching services can support your journey to love.

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